Teaching Kids About Giving Back

Welcome back to our ongoing series, “A Mom’s Guide to Financial Freedom.” Today we delve into a crucial aspect of parenting: teaching kids about giving back. I have always been involved in various charities and have always involved my children. Giving back doesn’t always mean donating money, it can be giving your time. It is important to me that my children understand the importance of giving back to their community. 

Why Teach Kids About Giving Back?

Compassion, Empathy, and Gratitude

Teaching kids about giving back goes beyond mere altruism. It shapes their character, fosters empathy, and nurtures gratitude. By understanding the needs of others and actively contributing to their well-being, children learn valuable life lessons that extend far beyond the classroom. It also exposes children to the world around them. All four of my children have been so various townships within South Africa, they have visited orphanages and schools in less-privileged areas.

Practical Ways to Instill Giving Back

1. Lead by Example

Children absorb behaviors by observing their parents. Show them the importance of giving back by volunteering your time and resources. Whether it’s serving meals at a local shelter or participating in community clean-up drives, involve your kids in hands-on experiences that demonstrate compassion in action. There are so many ways you can give back in South Africa. Projects like Santa Shoebox are quick and easy ways to get involved, you can just donate a box or you can volunteer to join a party where the gifts are handed out. Most churches will have outreach programes you can get involved with as well. 

2. Involve Them in Charitable Activities

Engage your children in age-appropriate charitable activities. Consider volunteering together at a soup kitchen, participating in a charity run, or organizing a neighborhood toy drive. These shared experiences create lasting memories and reinforce the value of selflessness. I have taken my kids to Santa Shoebox celebrations, they have helped with Mandela Day activities like painting schools etc. 

3. Encourage Generosity Beyond Money

Teach your kids that giving isn’t solely about financial contributions. Encourage them to share their talents, skills, and time. Whether it’s tutoring a classmate, helping an elderly neighbor, or planting trees in a local park, every act of kindness matters.

4. Discuss Social Issues

Initiate open conversations about social issues. Tailor discussions to your child’s age and understanding. Explore topics like hunger, homelessness, environmental conservation, and animal welfare. Encourage critical thinking by asking questions like, “How can we make a difference?” This is something we talk about fairly often. My children are growing up privileged and it is important for me to make sure they understand their privilege and what is going on in the world around them.