45 Things I Wish Someone Told Me
Keeping in line with my 45 things this month I am sharing 45 things I wish someone had told me instead of learning them the hard way!
I wish someone had told me earlier.
- To not get married so early.
- That we don’t need to eat so much red meat.
- Its ok to say no even when everyone else is saying yes.
- You don’t need to lose weight. You are perfect the way you are.
- Garlic powder is the a pantry staple.
- Chickpeas are delicious.
- To start a vegetable garden.
- It is ok to say yes, you can have fun.
- To get my nails done regularly.
- Kids don’t need to go to school. Learning doesn’t need to happen in school.
- Always keep change in your purse/bag/car.
- You will eventually find your tribe.
- Learn to bake.
- Black coffee is amazing, if the beans are good.
- If you don’t want the job, don’t take it.
- Don’t buy a car because everyone else is buying a car.
- Coffee and cheese always goes on sale. Always. Every month. Just wait for it.
- Always check google maps before you leave. Even if you know the way.
- You have to make time for your friends.
- You can find comfortable jeans.
- Just because it’s on the internet doesn’t mean it’s true.
- Family is important but not at the expense of your mental health.
- Staying in can be as much fun as going out, in fact it can be more fun!
- Your mental health is important.
- Big your battles, when you do fight for them. Always.
- It is ok to fail.
- It is also ok to succeed.
- Budgeting is important. Do it.
- Sometimes it is ok to be quiet.
- You do no need more stuff. You DO NOT!
- Letting go of control can be liberating.
- To let go of people who aren’t adding to your life.
- Go to yoga! Regularly.
- Travel to places that full your soul. Even if they are on your doorstep.
- Speak your truth, even if no one else agrees with you. It is your truth.
- Learn how to make at least one meal really well.
- A slow cooker is your best friend. Invest in it.
- Know your boundaries.
- Find someone who challenges you.
- You don’t have to have kids. You can, but you don’t have to.
- Get a dog. Or two.
- Communication is the key to EVERYTHING. EVERYTHING.
- Marriage is hard.
- Spend less in general.
- Just be happy.
12 Responses
It’s amazing how powerful a simple message can be. Some of these really resonated with me, and I think they will with a lot of others, as well.
I love this and found myself agreeing to most of these, especially number 45, we all deserve to be happy
These are all great thoughts. I made a lot of mistakes when I was younger, and this is a wonderful list. I wasted a lot of time on things, rushing through life or spending my time in the wrong places.
Very very insightful!!! This one stood out for me: Family is important but not at the expense of your mental health. I can’t agree more….I would include friends as well.
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt list of 45 things you wish someone had told you earlier. Your words resonate deeply and remind us of the wisdom gained through life’s experiences. Your vulnerability and honesty are inspiring, and I appreciate the emotional connection in your reflections.
To not get married so early. Now I sure wish I had known that!
There is so much advice I would give to my younger self. My first bit would be to be more confident and wear what you want to wear – don’t follow the crowd.
Important reminders at any age. It’s easy to get swept up sometimes in the opinions of others especially nowadays with social media and technology. Great post!
Great tips here for sure and so much I wish I knew prior LOL… life is a learning lesson all the way through 😉
Love this list! Mymost favorite and the one I try to follow would be #3 & #24 & #42. Still learning to communicate better
That’s really so good to read. There are many things which we did and regret that wish someone would have told us not to do.
Sharing your experiences can be valuable in helping others navigate their own journeys.